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Get That Money Girlfriend!

Did you know that if you are divorced you can get social security benefits from your ex?  That's right! You might still be able to have the last word--especially if he mistreated you throughout the marriage.  Or worse yet---dumped you for a younger woman!  Even if he remarried, you can still get a piece of his pie if you fall into the following categories:   1) Your marriage lasted at least 10 years 2) You are unmarried 3)  You are at least 62 years old 4)  The benefit you would be entitled to is LESS than what he would get 5)  You are eligible for Social Security retirement or disability benefits Furthermore, if your ex-spouse is eligible to receive SS but hasn't applied, you can still collect if you've been divorced for two consecutive years. If you are also qualified to receive benefits, SSA will pay your benefit FIRST.  If your ex's benefit is higher, SSA will pay the difference.  OK--let's do the math.  If you are eligible for ...
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New Year New Survey on Finding the Right Doctor

If you're over the age of 50, you probably have at least one doctor.  As a matter of fact, most of us probably have two or three.  I've had pretty much the same doctors for the past 20 years.  They know me quite well and have seen me at my best AND worst during that time.  Recently, I saw a survey in the January 2020 issue  AARP Magazine  that caught my attention because it was about how people go about selecting the best physicians for themselves. The survey was conducted by the University of Michigan in conjunction with AARP.  Of the 2,256 people who participated, a whopping 93 percent said the most important critical factor in selecting a doctor was whether or not he/she accepted the medical insurance they're covered under.  Besides that, here are the other important elements: Ease in getting appointments:  61 percent Doctor's years of experience:  42 percent Recommended by family/friends:  23 percent Medical school atten...

Healing Begins in the Mind

It's been four weeks since I underwent a medical procedure for my heart.  Everyone keeps telling me not to rush my healing and recovery because it is a process that takes time.  As a matter of fact, the surgeon told me it could take anywhere from six weeks to six months depending on my body and state of mind. Yes, your state of mind plays a big part in your healing.  I, personally, believe healing begins in the mind.  You may be physically ready to get back to business as usual but if you are dealing with depression (and you will have some) and the "woe is me" thinking over how your got to where you are now, chances are you will remain stagnate.   Anyone who has ever undergone a medical procedure knows the challenges of regaining your physical strength again because, sometimes, it's a lot easier to lie in bed and succumb to the pain (both real and imagined).  The same goes for people who are just unhappy with where they are in life right now....

Take Time and Heal

When I woke up this morning, I had every intention of going to the gym---doctor's orders.  But when I saw that it was raining I became lazy and decided to just lounge around and do nothing.  Here's the rest of the story on my YouTube channel...... https://youtu.be/g7vIoLwn5SE

Welcome Girlfriends Over 49

Here I go again....... As someone who loves to write about "issues", I can't think of a better way to do it than by using a blogging platform where my thoughts can be exposed to the masses.  LOL! Well, maybe not quite that large---but writing gives me the opportunity to share information with others who are willing to receive it. This is my 5th blog and will be, more than likely, my most active one.  I'm at the phase of my life where I can talk about A LOT issues because like Farmers Insurance, "I know a thing or two because I've seen a thing or two...."   I decided to title this blog (and podcast series) "Slow Your Roll, Girlfriend!" as a reminder to self that I can't do all of the things I could do when I was in my teens and twenties.  I want other women to know that it's OK to slow down and still get things accomplished.  As opposed to going 99 mph to get everything down within a certain time frame, I choose to run this next le...